• Question: why is it when someone dosent like you but you like them, why does it feel like you heart is breaking??

    Asked by xpaigexox to Becki on 28 Jun 2013.
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      Rebecca Scott answered on 28 Jun 2013:


      Oh I know that feeling well, it’s happened to me 🙁

      You become so attached to the person emotionally that you want them to notice and like everything that you do and say. And you feel so disappointed and upset when they don’t feel the same way about you. I don’t know why our emotions are designed like that, but everybody (even those who don’t admit it) have probably experienced that feeling of rejection. You have to just try and look at the positive side of the experience. And sometimes it is better to just be friends with the person. I always think, I would rather have that person in my life as a friend than not at all.

      I’m sorry that I don’t know why we feel like that…

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